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[skins_warrior26]

I'm going to be honest this is a personal event that has happened lately. A good friend, who is a virgin, who is going out with a girl who is a really good person, good student hooked up(madeout, i dont know sexual details) with some girl at a college weekend visit. I was intoxicated, but I did give advice to my friend and told him not to do it, and I told him stuff like "come on man what are you doing". He was intoxicated as well. Our other friend who claims to be christian, was telling me its his own choice, yet although this may be true isnt it up to use to guide eachother in the right direction. He told him well you may regret it, but he also supported the cause by saying "come on boy."Although we were all intoxicated i felt in my judgement we knew, each and every one of us, what we were doing.

Now I am mad at both of my buds, and they are really close to me.
I have had two girlfriends before and have stayed loyal while we were going out, and have always been sickened by even makeout sessions with another girl, if you already have a girlfriend. Dont get me wrong about this thread, I attend college and these two friends were seniors in highschool. I feel responsible for what took place, and ashamed for not just making a huge deal to avoid from my buddy from cheating on his girlfriend. This may be a very adolescent situation to posters who are married and such.

I just need some advice on the situation.

[Vexillum]

It sounds like you've done about all you could do. If you're in college, hook up with a campus Christian group.

[eynon]

skins_warrior26 wrote: I'm going to be honest this is a personal event that has happened lately. A good friend, who is a virgin, who is going out with a girl who is a really good person, good student hooked up(madeout, i dont know sexual details) with some girl at a college weekend visit. I was intoxicated, but I did give advice to my friend and told him not to do it, and I told him stuff like "come on man what are you doing". He was intoxicated as well. Our other friend who claims to be christian, was telling me its his own choice, yet although this may be true isnt it up to use to guide eachother in the right direction. He told him well you may regret it, but he also supported the cause by saying "come on boy."Although we were all intoxicated i felt in my judgement we knew, each and every one of us, what we were doing.

Now I am mad at both of my buds, and they are really close to me.
I have had two girlfriends before and have stayed loyal while we were going out, and have always been sickened by even makeout sessions with another girl, if you already have a girlfriend. Dont get me wrong about this thread, I attend college and these two friends were seniors in highschool. I feel responsible for what took place, and ashamed for not just making a huge deal to avoid from my buddy from cheating on his girlfriend. This may be a very adolescent situation to posters who are married and such.

I just need some advice on the situation.

don't let him date your sister........

[LetsGetReal]

I would that this situation shows that drinking too much can impair judgement and make you do things you shouldn't do.

[Corona]

LetsGetReal wrote: I would that this situation shows that drinking too much can impair judgement and make you do things you shouldn't do.

I did not know that.