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Chocolate_New_Orleans
Joined: 07 Mar 2006
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| Posted: Tue Mar 07, 2006 8:19 pm Post subject: new and confused... |
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My name is Jimi and I am married with 2 kids. Recently, I have become attracted to a coworker named Eric as we offroad together. He is also married.
We had sex the other night. It was both of our first gay experience. However, the problem is, I don't like getting screwed up the butt, but enjoy screwing him. And for him, it's the same situation.
So why would he take me home if he didn't plan on receiving? |
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Melchior
Joined: 02 Oct 2004
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Location: Palm Beach
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| Posted: Tue Mar 07, 2006 8:27 pm Post subject: |
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Is this post a joke? :lol:
I don't mean to be offend if it is, I'm just wondering.
I suggest you pm this guy: Skeptical Mystic
He's good at giving advice in this category. |
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Camilus
Joined: 07 Mar 2006
Posts: 6
Location: Somners, NY
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| Posted: Wed Mar 08, 2006 12:02 am Post subject: |
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| The situation is if you if you still love you wife, you won't have sex with this guy again. You need to ask yourself if your willing to throw away marriage over this. You are both married and you have two kids so the potential for disaster is very high. |
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Æ
Joined: 17 Jun 2005
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| Posted: Wed Mar 08, 2006 12:16 am Post subject: |
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| The hard fact of the matter is that you have to put both relationships on a scale. Questions of this matter include resolving true sexual identity and also on individual circumstances. Even if you are happier with someone other than your wife, it is a good idea to determine whether the other relationship can work or whether there are likely to be irreconcilable differences (such as the one you mentioned). |
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DarthDuncan
Joined: 15 Dec 2004
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Location: illinois
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| Posted: Wed Mar 08, 2006 9:48 am Post subject: |
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| Choose one relationship. If you'd like to remain married then seeing your co-worker would probably not be a good idea, but if you really love this guy then I'd say stay with him. Or talk to Skeptical Mystic. He's probably the smartest guy on the site. |
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Anjire2
Joined: 14 Apr 2005
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| Posted: Wed Mar 08, 2006 9:52 am Post subject: Re: new and confused... |
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Chocolate_New_Orleans wrote: My name is Jimi and I am married with 2 kids. Recently, I have become attracted to a coworker named Eric as we offroad together. He is also married.
We had sex the other night. It was both of our first gay experience. However, the problem is, I don't like getting screwed up the butt, but enjoy screwing him. And for him, it's the same situation.
So why would he take me home if he didn't plan on receiving?
I really have to question the intent on this post, if the bolded portion is all you are seeking advice on...
You are both married and you have children - don't you think those items should be of more concern then who receives? |
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00timh
Joined: 08 Nov 2004
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Location: upstate NY
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| Posted: Wed Mar 08, 2006 10:27 am Post subject: |
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| :lol: I can't believe any of you are taking this guy serious. :lol: |
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StrangerWitCandy
Joined: 02 Feb 2005
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Location: Fairfax, VA
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| Posted: Wed Mar 08, 2006 10:58 am Post subject: |
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00timh wrote: :lol: I can't believe any of you are taking this guy serious. :lol:
me neither. :? this thread should be locked |
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Protostar
Joined: 30 Jul 2004
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Location: Raleigh, North Carolina
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| Posted: Wed Mar 08, 2006 11:01 am Post subject: |
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| Ask your wife if she would be interested in swinging. Seriously, thats the way to go. Finding one person for a life long companion is great, but it still would be nice to sleep around with more than one person every once in a while just for variety. |
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Melchior
Joined: 02 Oct 2004
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Location: Palm Beach
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| Posted: Wed Mar 08, 2006 7:25 pm Post subject: |
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00timh wrote: :lol: I can't believe any of you are taking this guy serious. :lol:
That's why I asked if it was a joke.
Protostar wrote: Ask your wife if she would be interested in swinging. Seriously, thats the way to go. Finding one person for a life long companion is great, but it still would be nice to sleep around with more than one person every once in a while just for variety.
Whoa-ho! Go Protostar. :lol: |
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Gryff1nd0r
Joined: 12 Nov 2004
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Location: Cambridge, MA
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| Posted: Fri Mar 10, 2006 11:09 am Post subject: |
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| I hope your wife finds out and whips the sh!t out of you. |
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F'losrix
Joined: 17 Nov 2004
Posts: 7977
Location: Michigan, Washtenaw County
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| Posted: Fri Mar 10, 2006 12:46 pm Post subject: |
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Well, technically I'm supposed to be on hiatus, but for some reason I still have access to the forum. (I can resist any temptation but chocolate and posting in this forum).
I'm not going to answer this post within the thread. If the poster is sincere (which I seriously doubt), he can PM me for a confidential answer.
Apart from that, I'd suggest locking the thread for the originator's own protection. |
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F'losrix
Joined: 17 Nov 2004
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Location: Michigan, Washtenaw County
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| Posted: Fri Mar 10, 2006 12:49 pm Post subject: |
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| Oh, and thanks for all the nods from other posters regarding my alleged expertise. :!oops: |
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John Galt
Joined: 04 May 2004
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Location: Minnesota
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| Posted: Fri Mar 10, 2006 12:53 pm Post subject: |
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| Whoa, didn't see this one. Locked. |
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