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[Nelson]

I can't believe how many people are disgusted and amazed at the idea that I won't marry a woman if she isn't Jewish. It's pretty funny, actually. Everyone has the impression that my choices are so severely limited, that it is almost impossible to find a Jewish girl - and they are all convinced that I will fall in love with a Christian girl and my parents will disown me.

Anyone else have a similar situation with their friends acting as though marrying a Jewish woman is a huge deal, when to you it seems like not so big of one?

[Duchifas]

Nelson wrote: I can't believe how many people are disgusted and amazed at the idea that I won't marry a woman if she isn't Jewish. It's pretty funny, actually. Everyone has the impression that my choices are so severely limited, that it is almost impossible to find a Jewish girl - and they are all convinced that I will fall in love with a Christian girl and my parents will disown me.

Anyone else have a similar situation with their friends acting as though marrying a Jewish woman is a huge deal, when to you it seems like not so big of one?

Just don't marry anyone from Brandeis. ;)

[Secondary Oak]

Nelson wrote: I can't believe how many people are disgusted and amazed at the idea that I won't marry a woman if she isn't Jewish. It's pretty funny, actually. Everyone has the impression that my choices are so severely limited, that it is almost impossible to find a Jewish girl - and they are all convinced that I will fall in love with a Christian girl and my parents will disown me.
Well, your choices are limited, you will have a harder time finding a Jewish girl (I assume), and it is possible you'll fall in love with and marry a Christian girl (love often wins :)).
But of course, I do understand your position, though I don't share it. It's a deep-rooted tradition, not to mention a religious law (I think...).

[Nelson]

Secondary Oak wrote: Nelson wrote: I can't believe how many people are disgusted and amazed at the idea that I won't marry a woman if she isn't Jewish. It's pretty funny, actually. Everyone has the impression that my choices are so severely limited, that it is almost impossible to find a Jewish girl - and they are all convinced that I will fall in love with a Christian girl and my parents will disown me.
Well, your choices are limited, you will have a harder time finding a Jewish girl (I assume), and it is possible you'll fall in love with and marry a Christian girl (love often wins :)).
But of course, I do understand your position, though I don't share it. It's a deep-rooted tradition, not to mention a religious law (I think...).

I'm pretty sure I'll just look for love at the local hillel rather than the local bar/church, and I might have better luck finding Jews.

[Duchifas]

People meet spouses in bars? Like what do you find there, isn't it more of a "lets have casual sex once or twice" scene? Why would anyone want anyone from there?

[John]

Quote: not to mention a religious law (I think...).

Is it??

[Duchifas]

John wrote: Quote: not to mention a religious law (I think...).

Is it??

Well, there is obviously no punishment for it, so its not law in the enforcement sense. Just that the kids are not considered Jews, unless they convert to Judaism later in life. In Judaism, Jewishness goes by the mother, tribe goes by the father.

[John]

Duchifas wrote: John wrote: Quote: not to mention a religious law (I think...).

Is it??

Well, there is obviously no punishment for it, so its not law in the enforcement sense. Just that the kids are not considered Jews, unless they convert to Judaism later in life. In Judaism, Jewishness goes by the mother, tribe goes by the father.

Where is that in the Bible?

[Duchifas]

I am sorry, I wasn't clear enough. I think it is based on Deuteronomy 7, specifically, verse 3.

http://www.chabad.org/library/article.asp?AID=9971

I may be wrong as to punishment too.

[John]

Duchifas wrote: I am sorry, I wasn't clear enough. I think it is based on Deuteronomy 7, specifically, verse 3.

http://www.chabad.org/library/article.asp?AID=9971

I may be wrong as to punishment too.


Thanks Duchifas. I thought I had seen it in there, just wasn't sure exactly where.

So was this a commandment of all time...or just a commandment not to marry the Canaanites in the taking of the Promised Land?

[Duchifas]

I think it applies in all cases, how that's derived I am not sure. Can check that for you in August, if you wish. Or google for it.

[John]

Duchifas wrote: I think it applies in all cases, how that's derived I am not sure. Can check that for you in August, if you wish. Or google for it.

So why did Moses marry a Gentile?

[lordcelerborn]

Duchifas wrote: Nelson wrote: I can't believe how many people are disgusted and amazed at the idea that I won't marry a woman if she isn't Jewish. It's pretty funny, actually. Everyone has the impression that my choices are so severely limited, that it is almost impossible to find a Jewish girl - and they are all convinced that I will fall in love with a Christian girl and my parents will disown me.

Anyone else have a similar situation with their friends acting as though marrying a Jewish woman is a huge deal, when to you it seems like not so big of one?

Just don't marry anyone from Brandeis. ;) Hey!! What do you have against Paradeis?

[Duchifas]

John wrote: Duchifas wrote: I think it applies in all cases, how that's derived I am not sure. Can check that for you in August, if you wish. Or google for it.

So why did Moses marry a Gentile?

Is that a serious question? Why did Abraham marry a gentile? How about Isaac and Jacob? How did Jacob marry two sisters?

The laws weren't given yet.

And there were no Jews before Sinai revelation. That's when the nation was formed. Until then it was just Hebrews - a big big family/clan type situation.

[Duchifas]

lordcelerborn wrote: Duchifas wrote: Nelson wrote: I can't believe how many people are disgusted and amazed at the idea that I won't marry a woman if she isn't Jewish. It's pretty funny, actually. Everyone has the impression that my choices are so severely limited, that it is almost impossible to find a Jewish girl - and they are all convinced that I will fall in love with a Christian girl and my parents will disown me.

Anyone else have a similar situation with their friends acting as though marrying a Jewish woman is a huge deal, when to you it seems like not so big of one?

Just don't marry anyone from Brandeis. ;) Hey!! What do you have against Paradeis?

The sad fact that I wasted a lot of my money and four years on them. Biggest mistake of my life. It's a viper's pit of intolerant radical ultra-leftism. If only I had known then....

[John]

Duchifas wrote: John wrote: Duchifas wrote: I think it applies in all cases, how that's derived I am not sure. Can check that for you in August, if you wish. Or google for it.

So why did Moses marry a Gentile?

Is that a serious question? Why did Abraham marry a gentile? How about Isaac and Jacob? How did Jacob marry two sisters?

The laws weren't given yet.

And there were no Jews before Sinai revelation. That's when the nation was formed. Until then it was just Hebrews - a big big family/clan type situation.

Well, didn't Moses take on the Gentile wife after the Law was given?

What about Boaz? King David came through his line by him marring a Gentile (Ruth)...no?

[Duchifas]

Quote: Well, didn't Moses take on the Gentile wife after the Law was given?

Not that I recall. But I may be wrong. Got a verse?

If he did, see below about conversion.

Quote: What about Boaz? King David came through his line by him marring a Gentile (Ruth)...no?

Ruth most likely converted to Judaism as per practice and pattern of the last 3,500 years, so that's no problem whatsoever.

However, assuming the small possibility that she didn't, what are you trying to say, that some Jews don't always follow the law? Ok, what's the big news there?

[John]

Duchifas wrote: Quote: Well, didn't Moses take on the Gentile wife after the Law was given?

Not that I recall. But I may be wrong. Got a verse?

If he did, see below about conversion.

Quote: What about Boaz? King David came through his line by him marring a Gentile (Ruth)...no?

Ruth most likely converted to Judaism as per practice and pattern of the last 3,500 years, so that's no problem whatsoever.

However, assuming the small possibility that she didn't, what are you trying to say, that some Jews don't always follow the law? Ok, what's the big news there?


Numbers 12
1 Then Miriam and Aaron spoke against Moses because of the **** woman whom he had married (for he had married a **** woman);

2 and they said, "Has the LORD indeed spoken only through Moses? Has He not spoken through us as well?" And the LORD heard it.



Could it be that Miriam and Aaron misunderstood the Law?

[Duchifas]

http://www.chabad.org/library/article.asp?AID=9940&showrashi=true

[John]

Duchifas wrote: http://www.chabad.org/library/article.asp?AID=9940&showrashi=true

Are you replacing HaShem with chabad?